| Hymenoplasty Post-Op Care Instructions |
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Once you have successfully had hymenoplasty, it is very important that you are cautious with how you care for the area. Because hymen tissue is delicate and unique to each woman, it is important that you are not active after your procedure. Keep in mind, you can have your original hymen tear before actual penetration with certain activities (running, stretching, tampon use), and the chances can be even higher if you have had your hymen reattached in a hymenoplasty. You want to find a doctor that knows what they are doing, has experience and explains in detail all possible risks and complications. If you are examining yourself frequently, lifting your legs, etc., you do run the risk of not letting the tissue solidify and seal. The first 2-4 weeks are the most important. Can Your Doctor Tell If You Had a Hymenoplasty? Avoid wearing thongs, using tampons, running, heavy lifting (nothing over 3-5 pounds), exercise, swimming, etc. for the first 4-6 weeks. Ask your doctor for their specific post-op instructions. Make sure to find out what the protocol is, if you have any complications or the hymenal tissue or stitches reopen during this healing period. Do they offer complimentary touch-ups to help re-attach it? Also, make sure to ask if you are a good candidate BEFORE having the procedure. This way you can insure you and your doctor discuss expectations and all possible outcomes. Do your research, find a knowledgeable and experienced doctor. Or you run a great risk of an unsuccessful hymenoplasty. If you have questions for me, do not hesitate to ask me. Or if you would prefer, you can leave your question below to help others with similar concerns. I will answer your questions that way too. :-)
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written by Vanessa Scott, February 13, 2012
Hi Nancy,
Thank you for your sweet words! Glad the site and information has been helpful. There are several great doctors, experienced in Hymenoplasty procedures that I know personally. If you want, tell me where you are located or the states you can travel to, so we can see which one is closest to you (or email me if you prefer). If you just want some of the ones with the most experience, you can check out the Trusted Doctor page. All of them offer it and have the appropriate training. Look forward to hearing from you.  Vanessa
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written by Nancy, February 13, 2012
Vanessa, thank you for such a prompt response (I didn't expect you to reply that fast). I'm located in the Southern California region.
thanks again!
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written by Vanessa Scott, February 13, 2012
Hi Nancy!
Like to make sure my readers get as quick a response as possible. I know these issues are important to you and that is important to me.  There are a ton of doctors in the area (which can make it very confusing I know). But my advice would be to start with those doctors. They are experienced and have the appropriate credentials. I know you can email them first to meet them & get a feel for them. Ultimately, choose the one you are most comfortable and confident in. Let me know if you have other questions for me. Otherwise best wishes and please do not hesitate to contact me again! Warm regards, Vanessa
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written by Nancy, February 15, 2012
Dear Vanessa,
I'm currently looking into your suggestions. Your help and dedication to these female topics is greatly appreciated.
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written by Vanessa Scott, February 16, 2012
It is my pleasure Nancy!
Best wishes and keep us posted.  Vanessa
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written by Nancy, February 21, 2012
Hi Vanessa, its me again!
I have been doing some reasearch on the list of doctors you had previously provided me with and I have a question regarding one of the Doctors. If a Dr. does not have pre-op and post-op photos of hymenoplasty, is that a deal breaker? Also the nurse I spoke with at the Dr.'s office did not want to tell me how long the Dr. has been performing hymenoplastys for or how many he has performed. I'm not certain if I should disregard this Doctor since his qualifications and credentials seem legitimate! Any advise? thank you Vanessa!
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written by Vanessa Scott, February 22, 2012
Hi Nancy,
Good question. In my book, before and after pics are critical. Because of the nature of the procedure (hymenoplasty), some doctors do not display them or even take them. But still think it would be beneficial for you to see them if they help and if it is important to YOU. Lastly they should be able to tell you the number of procedures they have performed. Have you actually scheduled a consult with doctors? Did you speak with the actual doctor?
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written by Nancy, February 22, 2012
Hi Vanessa,
Yes I have corresponded with the doctor personally via email and to quote his exact response, he stated: "I have been performing them for years." Also, of the 2 doctors I have narrowed my selection to, one Dr. uses a scalpel and the other Dr. uses the Ellman Surgitron to make the incisions into the remnants of the hymeneal ring. With your knowledge and experience in the field, would you know which instrument/tool has better results? Each Dr. I spoke with was obviously bias towards the instrument they use and getting a neutral opinion from you would greatly help me decide on a Dr. Vanessa you are a true angel sent from above! I'm greatful I can speak with you when there is really no one else around I can discuss this highly private and sensitive topic with.
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written by Vanessa, February 22, 2012
Hi Nancy,
Glad to see you are really doing your research! To answer your question, yes, the instrument can be important. However, most important is the surgeon's experience both with the tool (laser, RF, scalpel, etc.) and the procedure. You want to know what their patient success rate is. What typical complications do THEIR patients experience, etc. So again experience, knowledge & a surgeon you feel comfortable & confident in. Best, Vanessa
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written by Helen, February 22, 2012
Hi.. Im 8 days after hymenoplasty.. And on my third day while i was peening there were two drops of blood, and than nothing.. And on my 8 the days , i was little constipated, so when i did number two, again there were a little blood like three four drops from thearea of hymenoplasty. Is that nrmal ? Dont have a chance to ask my doctor.. Thankyou.
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written by Vanessa Scott, February 22, 2012
Hi Helen,
Thanks for your question. The constipation may have not been great for the healing of the stitches. And the straining does not help. Though it is a good sign that you are not continuing to bleed, make sure to contact your doctor just to be on the safe side! Vanessa
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written by Mary , February 22, 2012
Is it normal to still feel sore 10 days after hymenoplasty?
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written by Vanessa Scott, February 22, 2012
Hi Mary,
"Normal" is going to vary by woman, doctor, type of sutures, etc. Was your doctor experienced? Do you know if they used dissolvable sutures? If so, usually they are still in place (on average 10-14 days). If not then your doctor would have to remove them. Hope this gives you a better idea. Keep taking it easy. Continue to minimize your activity and follow your docs post-op instructions. Happy healing! Vanessa
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written by Nancy, March 01, 2012
Hi Vanessa,
I'm thinking about going with Dr. Gary Alter. Do you think I'm making a good choice? Thanks!
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written by Vanessa, March 03, 2012
Hi Nancy,
Thanks for contacting me again. Must say you don't sound like a woman typically interested in these procedures. In fact you are beginning to sound like an employee or marketing person for a doctor.  As I have shared with you before, you must choose a doctor that YOU are comfortable/confident in. Nobody can tell you if you are "making a good decision". This is your decision to make. You need to make an educated one. The best advice you can get is to meet with these surgeons yourself and choose the one you ultimately believe will provide you what you're looking for. If you still are uncertain after all your research, then it may be best for you not to move forward with any surgery. Hope this helps. Best wishes, Vanessa
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written by sonum, March 05, 2012
Well i have been active for a year now. I cant marry my partner due to social and religious constraints.Both of us have tried and it is really impossible for us.Now i know hymenoplasty is my only option.I want to know if a gynaechologist can perform this procedure or not?I found some connection on the net but problem is that they claim to be sergeons not gynachologists .they also claim pure secrecy because they say they perform this sergury not in a hospital or clinic.they also said they did this once for a girl in a hotel room. Is that possible? like really possible for a sergery like this being performed in a hotel where there are no equipments etc. at all.
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written by Vanessa, March 05, 2012
Hi Sonum,
Thank you for your comment. I am familiar with what you have shared about the social/religious constraints and understand why a hymenoplasty & secrecy may be necessary. However, there is NO reason for you to have it done in a hotel by some surgeon or gynecologist. It would make me very apprehensive to see any doctor/person that is willing to perform any surgical procedure in a hotel room. And would definitely not consider having any procedure with them regardless of how minor or invasive. With that said, there are good doctors that can help you and will do it ethically and in a safe environment. My advice would be to seek one of those surgeons instead of putting your health/life in danger by trusting the wrong doctor. You are not alone. Keep doing your research and let me know if you have other questions for me. Best wishes, Vanessa
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Thank you for a wonderful and informative site. Do you happened to know of a an experienced and trusted doctor to perform a hymenoplasty?
your insight would be greatly appreciated! thank you