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Having been involved in the vaginal reconstruction industry for some time now, it continues to amaze me just how much wrong information is floating around out there.
As far as vaginal reconstruction is concerned, there is one piece of "bad information" that I see and hear over and over again.
It's seen in articles, blogs, forums, websites and comments.
And it comes from both men and women.
So what is this grand delusion?
It's the idea that women get vaginal tightening surgery to please their partners and NOT themselves.
In other words, a lot of people out there seem to think it is men pushing their women into having these surgeries.
And after talking to hundreds of women seeking these procedures, nothing could be further from the truth!
I have talked and consulted women (and their partners) from just about every corner of the globe that have wanted, needed and even received vaginal rejuvenation and/or labiaplasty.
Not a single one of them had the surgery because their "partner wanted me to do it".
In fact, without exception, these women choose to have the surgery for very intimate and personal reasons. But 99.9% of the time, it is for themselves.
It is to feel better about themselves.
Some women just don't feel the same after childbirth. Others have had constant pain and discomfort since puberty due to their deformities.
While another group just can't stand to look at it or wear certain clothes because of the appearance of the vagina.
These procedures empower women to feel better in their clothes, without their clothes, in front of a mirror and of course with their partners. However, not for or because of their partners.
In fact, most of the husbands and boyfriends I talk with could care less about what it looks like, their just glad to be "getting it".
Now it is true that one benefit of vaginal reconstruction is better sex. A tighter vagina equals more friction which equals more sensation for both partners.
But in my experience, the idea that men are driving their women to these surgeries for their own sexual gratification just is completely false!
Women choose to take action and feel better about themselves, which in turn leads to a more happy, confident and radiant woman.
The better sex just naturally follows...
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