Recently while at a baby shower for a friend, a fellow invitee and I started to make small talk.  She told me a little about herself as did I about myself.

And before you knew it she was telling me all about the 33 hour long labor she had with her only child.

She also eventually shared about "how much change" her body had undergone during and after pregnancy and how insecure she felt now.  Once she knew my background and experience in vaginal rejuvenation and labiaplasty, like many women, she had a dozen questions.

What was most interesting to me, is she was no different than the thousands of women I have talked to about the subject.

It reminded me of how many times I've heard ladies tell me, my husband says "I feel the same to him, but I feel different".

The most fascinating part is in my line of work I tend to do a lot of reading and research on labiplasty and vaginal tightening and it still amazes me how little we as women know.

• We are not being properly educated on how we can care for our bodies before and after child birth.

• We are misinformed on who or why women need or choose vaginal rejuvenation.

• We are not taught how to live healthy or encouraged to be powerful.

Instead, we are judged or criticized for wanting the best of both worlds: healthy happy children and a healthy beautiful body.

Why shouldn't we be able to be mothers AND sexy, confident women?

My passion continues to only strengthen with the more and more women I talk to.

Not all women experience these changes and obviously not all of them need or want vaginal rejuvenation, but for those that "feel different", at least you now have a choice!